He said...
"I love you. I'm desperate for you. Just touching you is a connection from me to you. I'm still here. I still adore you. Where has she gone?"
For men its not about getting their rocks off. They want the women they love to want them, and they want to feel like a real man by being desired.
You have to make the decision to put sex back in the equation and to make it a priority.
'Just do it. Even if you don't particularly feel like of it'.
Its can be a bond between you and him. It can heal. It can nurture. It can set you free and you can begin to understand things with your senses, in a way that can not be communicated with just words.